Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Confidence from Within

Lately I've realized that I am aging. Wrinkles, age spots, sagging skin on spots no one wants to see. It's all a bit depressing but also wonderful. I've come to realize that I need to be confident because of who I am not just what I look like. No, I don't look like a teenager anymore, but thankfully I don't want to. I'm happy with the muscles I've built by lifting faithfully, the wrinkles I've earned with too much laughter, the strands of gray hair I keep finding (who needs highlights?).

I've often wondered if I would be able to age gracefully or if I'd fight it Botox-style. I'm praying I'll be able to embrace each year and realize that my confidence comes from the things I accomplish with my writing, the smiles I create on my boys' faces, the relationship I have with my husband, the chances I take to help someone feel good about themselves, the friends who make me giggle like a teenager, the knowledge that I am a beloved daughter of a Heavenly Father who loves me. All these things give me confidence that sagging ab muscles can't take away.

I hope all of you know how wonderful you are and are blessed with confidence from within. Please share with all of us what gives you confidence.

2 comments:

  1. me...I will always use highlights...but I LOVE ME! God made me and I embrace it! My resolve it to continually try and stay fit and beat "age" as long as I can. Not that I want to be "younger"...I don't...but it's always a good feeling to know I'm winning the "race". Meaning...that I "look" 5 years or so younger than I am... that helps me push myself.

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  2. That is fabulous. I thought after I wrote this post, I hope it doesn't seem like I'm giving into aging, I just want to be careful not to base my confidence on how I look.
    But I agree, it is such a boost when people think you're younger than you are!

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